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Ian Chew, MHFAIan Chew, MHFA

As a sociology graduate, I’m constantly fascinated by people: how we talk with each other and with ourselves. Despite my social anxiety, I’ve had conversations with over 10,000 people — from homeless people to top CEOs — over the last ten years.

As part of my journey to overcome social anxiety, I also cold emailed top entrepreneurs and leaders. At first, I had tons of rejections — well, no one responded! As I got better at the art of outreach however, I ended up working with people like Eben Pagan, Michael Simmons (Inc. 30 Under 30), and Amir Ahmad Nasr (coach to 9-figure CEOs), ultimately helping them reach tens of millions of people online. 

For my work and projects, I've been featured by top media outlets including Fortune, CBC, Inc. Magazine, and Canadian Geographic. I also did a TEDx speech on my experience talking with strangers (link below).

I started Deeper Conversations to share everything I've learned — and am learning — about communication and relationships.

(Here's the full back story on why I created the site.)

Education 

Bachelor of Arts (Sociology) at Mount Allison University

Certifications 

  • Social Anxiety Disorder Comprehensive Training Course, PESI
  • 2-Day Certificate Course: CBT For Anxiety, PESI
  • ACT for Depression & Anxiety Disorders, Psychwire
  • Rewire the Anxious Brain: Neuroscience-­Informed Treatment of Anxiety, Panic and Worry, PESI
  • The Power Of Awareness, Greater Good Science Center - University of California, Berkeley
  • Psychological First Aid, John Hopkins University
  • Mental Health First Aid, Malaysian Mental Health Association

Media features 

  • Inc. Magazine: Want to Win People's Trust? This TEDx Speaker Says Do This 1 Thing | Inc.com 
  • TEDxMoncton: What I learned from 700 interviews in three years | Ian Chew
  • CBC: Humans of Sackville 

Latest articles

Social Skills

7 easy ways to talk to strangers on a plane

Will they think I’m weird or creepy? What if they don’t want to talk?   What do I even say!?  Want to talk to strangers on … Read more

Ian Chew, MHFA

Written by: Ian Chew, MHFA

Published on: 09/21/2022

Social Skills

10 easy ways to start a conversation with strangers at weddings

Will they think I’m weird or creepy? What if they don’t want to talk?   What do I even say!?  Want to start a conversation with … Read more

Ian Chew, MHFA

Written by: Ian Chew, MHFA

Published on: 09/21/2022

Social Skills

11 easy ways to talk to strangers at a conference

Will they think I’m weird or creepy? What if they don’t want to talk?   What do I even say!?  Want to improve your social skills … Read more

Ian Chew, MHFA

Written by: Ian Chew, MHFA

Published on: 09/21/2022

Social Skills

7 easy ways to talk to strangers on campus (without being awkward)

If you’re in college or university, you probably want to make new friends. You see all these people that you don’t know… how do you … Read more

Ian Chew, MHFA

Written by: Ian Chew, MHFA

Published on: 09/21/2022

Social Skills

7 easy ways to talk to strangers on the street (without being creepy)

Will they think I’m weird or creepy? What if they don’t want to talk?   What do I even say!?  Want to talk to strangers and … Read more

Ian Chew, MHFA

Written by: Ian Chew, MHFA

Published on: 09/21/2022

Social Skills

6 easy ways to talk to strangers at a park

Will they think I’m weird or creepy? What if they don’t want to talk?   What do I even say!?  Want to talk to strangers and … Read more

Ian Chew, MHFA

Written by: Ian Chew, MHFA

Published on: 09/21/2022

Social Skills

11 easy ways to talk to strangers at a grocery store 

To make the article comprehensive, I interviewed Amber Tucker — an editor friend who worked at a grocery store for three years — and my mum who’s a pro at chatting up other grocery shoppers…

Ian Chew, MHFA

Written by: Ian Chew, MHFA

Published on: 09/20/2022

Social Skills

7 easy ways to talk to strangers in a restaurant

Why start a conversation at a restaurant? You have a natural topic: the restaurant food! And, here are seven ways to go about this…

Ian Chew, MHFA

Written by: Ian Chew, MHFA

Published on: 09/20/2022

Social Skills

8 easy ways to talk to strangers at a bookstore

Will they think I’m weird or creepy? What if they don’t want to talk?   What do I even say!?  Want to talk to strangers and … Read more

Ian Chew, MHFA

Written by: Ian Chew, MHFA

Published on: 09/20/2022

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