20 dinner table conversation starters for deeper connection

In my family, dinner talk was unusual… until this extrovert decided to change things 🙂  According to research, you feel closer to each other by simply sharing the same food! How remarkable is that?   Here …

In my family, dinner talk was unusual… until this extrovert decided to change things 🙂 

According to research, you feel closer to each other by simply sharing the same food! How remarkable is that?  

Here are a few Qs to build even deeper relationships over dinner: 

Ask about their day 

  1. How was your day?
  2. How was work/school?
  3. What was the highlight of your day?
  4. Did anything fun/interesting today? 
  5. What did you learn today? 
  6. What’re you grateful about today?
  7. What’re you looking forward to tomorrow/this weekend? 

These questions work for small talk, but are also meaningful enough to help you connect with each other. 

Talk about your respective dinner rituals

  1. What’s your favorite dinner meal?
  2. What’s your family dinner ritual or routine? 
  3. What’s the first thing you do right after dinner? 
  4. What was family dinner like growing up? 
  5. What was your favorite memory of having dinner with family or friends? 
  6. What would be a no-no at your dinner table? // What’s your pet peeve during dinner? 
  7. What’s a dinner habit that you would like to do more of? 

These questions are helpful when you have dinner with people outside your immediate family. 

Want other fun & deep questions on food? Your wish is my command ✨

91 food conversation starters and questions to talk with anyone

Discuss the sources of your food

  1. Where do you think <a specific dish/ingredient> comes from?
  2. Would you ever consider growing your own garden or orchard? 
  3. What do you think about community gardens? // Have you ever visited a community garden? 
  4. If you could only eat global OR local food, what would you choose? 
  5. How much would you pay for healthy, local food? 
  6. What would you consider real vs. fake food? 

Most of us are disconnected from our food. These thought-provoking questions can help you and your dinner partners cultivate a deeper appreciation for food. 

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