89 sports conversation starters and questions to talk with anyone

To make the article more comprehensive, I’ve also interviewed Daphne Ng, a former national badminton player, and Jess Lim, my physiotherapist who worked at Singapore General Hospital for many years.

8,000.

That’s the number of sports according to World Sports Encyclopedia.

Chances are that you’re into one of the 8,000+ sports, whether you’re a participant or an observer. 

In this article, I will go into questions you can use to talk with anyone about sports. And to make the article more comprehensive, I’ve also interviewed Daphne Ng, a former national badminton player, Kyler Shumway, PsyD, a D1-athlete-turned-psychologist, and Jess Lim, my physiotherapist who worked at Singapore General Hospital for many years 💪

Daphne Ng
Kyler Shumway
Jess Lim

General sports conversation starters 

Small talk 

  1. What sports do you enjoy playing? 
  2. What sports do you enjoy watching?
  3. What sports have you been meaning to try?
  4. Do you prefer solo or team sports?
  5. What sports did you play growing up? 
  6. Do you do any sports with family or friends? 
  7. How do you stay active? 
  8. Have you heard about <interesting sports news>?
  9. Did you watch the <sports name> match yesterday? h/t: Daphne
  10. Any favorite sports celebrities or teams? 
  11. What’s the most popular sport in your hometown/country?
  12. In your culture, what’s the go-to sport?  

Fun questions 

  1. What extreme sport would you like to try?
  2. Would you ever consider doing an Ironman? (Learn more about Ironman here)
  3. Would you ever fight a bull? 
  4. Would you rather be a volcano surfer or ice climber? (Learn about both here)
  5. Would you rather climb Mount Everest or do deep sea diving? 
  6. What sport should be an Olympic sport? 
  7. You wake up one day and you’re a professional athlete. What sports would it be? 
  8. If you could swap bodies with any sports celebrity in the world, who would it be? 
  9. If you could have dinner with any sports celebrity — dead or alive — who would it be? 

Trivia questions 

  1. What’s the king of sports? (Answer: soccer)
  2. Who was the first Olympic champion? (Answer: James Connolly, triple jump)
  3. Who’s the highest-paid athlete of all time? (Answer: Michael Jordan)
  4. Which country might have invented golf? (Answer: China)
  5. What kind of sports was pankration? (Answer: Ancient Greek’s version of MMA)

Deeper questions 

  1. Do you believe that exercise is medicine? h/t: Jess
  2. Have sports made you a better person/changed your life? Why or why not?
  3. What do you think your favorite sport says about you as a person? h/t: Kyler 
  4. If life was a sport, how would you keep score?   
  5. Why do most people exercise too little?
  6. What keeps/would keep you motivated to exercise regularly? h/t: Jess
  7. How would you feel if you didn’t exercise for a month? h/t: Jess
  8. Athletes sometimes talk about entering a “flow state” when they play. What sorts of things get you into your flow state? h/t: Kyler 
  9. What makes the mind of an athlete different from the mind of most folks? h/t: Kyler 
  10. How much time should people spend indoors vs. outdoors? 
  11. Should employers ever make sports mandatory at work? Why or why not? 
  12. What sports should be banned and why? 
  13. Would you consider esports a real sport? Why or why not? 
  14. Should esports be an Olympic sport? Why or why not? (you could name a specific esport like Dota or Fortnite)
  15. Which sports celebrity has influenced you the most? Why?
  16. Nature or nurture – which one do you feel has a greater impact when it comes to the best athletes? h/t: Kyler
  17. How has sports changed the world?
  18. What do you think sports might look like 100 years from now? How might society be different because of that? h/t: Kyler 

Specific sports conversation starters 

I brainstormed questions on the most popular sports in the world. These are helpful if you already know the person is into a specific sport, and especially if you know a fair bit about the sport too. 

Football/soccer

  1. Which league do you follow? (Each soccer-playing country has its own league – see the list here
  2. What’s your favorite soccer team? 
  3. Which soccer team do you hate?
  4. Which soccer team do you think is overrated? 
  5. What do you think about Cristiano Ronaldo? (could be any other famous player, ideally one that’s a lil’ controversial) 
  6. Who’s the best soccer player/manager/team of all time? 
  7. What’s the most underrated soccer tactic in your opinion?
  8. If you were a soccer manager, what would be your starting 11? 
  9. If you were a soccer player, what position would you be in?
  10. If you were the God of soccer, what rule would you add/change/remove?
  11. Is it ever OK to dive
  12. Who was better: Pele or Maradona? 
  13. Ronaldo or Messi? 

Cricket

  1. Which league do you follow? (Each cricket-playing country has its own league – see the list here
  2. What’s your favorite cricket team?  
  3. Which cricket team do you hate? 
  4. Which cricket team do you think is overrated? 
  5. What do you think about Ricky Ponting? (could be any other famous player, ideally one that’s a lil’ controversial) 
  6. Who’s the best cricket player/coach/team of all time? 
  7. What’s the most underrated cricket tactic in your opinion?
  8. If you were a cricket coach, what would be your starting 11?
  9. If you were a cricket player, what position would you be in?
  10. If you were the God of cricket, what rule would you add/change/remove?
  11. Is it ever OK to tamper the ball?
  12. Who was better: Tendulkar or Bradman? 
  13. Tendulkar or Warne?

Hockey 

  1. Which league do you follow? (Each hockey-playing country has its own league – see a shortlist here
  2. What’s your favorite hockey team? 
  3. Which hockey team do you hate? 
  4. Which hockey team do you think is overrated? 
  5. What do you think about Alex Ovechkin? (could be any other famous plate, ideally one that is a lil’ controversial)
  6. Who’s the best hockey player/coach/team of all time? 
  7. What’s the most underrated hockey tactic in your opinion?
  8. If you were a hockey coach, what would be your starting six?
  9. If you were a hockey player, what position would you be in?
  10. If you were the God of hockey, what rule would you add/change/remove?
  11. Why is it OK to fight in hockey but not in other sports? (Check out other controversial hockey topics here)
  12. Who was better: Gretzky or Lemieux? 
  13. Ovechkin or Crosby?

Tennis 

  1. Who’s your favorite tennis player? 
  2. Who’s the best tennis player/coach of all time? 
  3. Who was better: Roger Federer, Rafael Nadal, or Novak Djokovic?
  4. If you could only go with one kind of tennis shot, what would it be?
  5. What’s the best type of tennis court in your opinion? 
  6. What do you think was Roger Federer’s secret to longevity?  

Badminton 

  1. Who’s your favorite badminton player?
  2. Who’s the best badminton player/coach of all time? 
  3. Who was better: Lin Dan, Li Chong Wei, or Taufik Hidayat? 
  4. If you could only go with one kind of badminton shot, what would it be?
  5. Why is badminton not popular in the States?
  6. I played badminton yesterday! Do you play badminton too? Or do you play any other sports? h/t: Daphne 

Related articles